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INFJ personality type  

Overall goal of blog: Re-masculinizing Asian male masculinity and sexual representation, derailing stereotypes, and promoting visibility to it in areas that it is misrepresented or inadequate: particularly the mainstream media and the gay community; and challenging American racial hegemony and hierarchical social structures by exposing it.
This Tumblr includes:
Asian stuff - funny shit - hot guys of color - beautiful women - psychology - reality tv - tennis - golf - cats - medical research 

…But mostly just hot muscular men
Consider yourself warned </description><title>짓궂은 상상 속 우린 이미 저 끝</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @seoulmate89)</generator><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>Epiphany</title><description>&lt;p&gt;After realizing that gay men, physically speaking, typically only date carbon copies of themselves, I think I need to switch my old approach of &amp;#8220;finding the man I want to become&amp;#8221; to &amp;#8220;becoming the man I want to find.&amp;#8221;  I feel like this will solve the majority of my problems.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50816396652</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50816396652</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 08:55:04 -0400</pubDate><category>gay men</category><category>dating</category><category>gay problems</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/316a78834e5c3027f40f0d211d26372d/tumblr_mmviulEDUr1qkgmdao1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50813796646</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50813796646</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 08:01:30 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/2a2c450d5e8eccb371a9094732e8df2d/tumblr_mm8aqjC4C91sp2erlo1_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50813692875</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50813692875</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 07:59:00 -0400</pubDate><category>รักต้องเปิด</category><category>splash out</category><category>3.2.1</category><category>kamikaze</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/38aa222d6be517c861e6106bed24c90f/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto1_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/740739140f2e6dfa85c574fae7b58fb6/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto2_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a75dd0c05d48a2f17e6c0f4ded30fb91/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto3_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/95eed94418e10734f5050391d3998e1b/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto4_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5ff94cf00585acc5372cf5f15c2deb8c/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto5_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/40e56b6731ac7660c36cbdefd1fe3b7e/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto6_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/7958f8e4450a8cd44efb6841677d0c63/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto9_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/331f7d384e01aef96ab72cd8f7f847c2/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto7_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/dc0dc3bc75f7155c9094178f3673498a/tumblr_mmzfhvHxeK1qhccpto8_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50813665934</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50813665934</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 07:58:17 -0400</pubDate><category>รักต้องเปิด</category><category>splash out</category><category>3.2.1</category><category>kamikaze</category></item><item><title>3.2.1 Kamikaze - รักต้องเปิด(แน่นอก) (Splash Out)This MV is...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ahkGRFhyxx4?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3.2.1 Kamikaze - &lt;span class="watch-title long-title yt-uix-expander-head" id="eow-title" title="[Official MV] รักต้องเปิด(แน่นอก) [Splash Out] - 3.2.1 Kamikaze feat.Baitoey RSiam"&gt;รักต้องเปิด(แน่นอก) (Splash Out)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This MV is hilarious and the song is the greatest. It’s catchy as hell and I swear to god I’m gonna learn the dance. Watch out, Gangnam Style.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50799397051</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50799397051</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 04:36:09 -0400</pubDate><category>รักต้องเปิด</category><category>splash out</category><category>3.2.1</category><category>kamikaze</category></item><item><title>endracismandhomophobia:

LOL. “White boys with blonde hair...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d9baa25d7df921f320b1427f4bf4074f/tumblr_mmvhrqdD9m1qa0ugxo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://endracismandhomophobia.tumblr.com/post/50640248459/lol-white-boys-with-blonde-hair-or-abs-are-my"&gt;endracismandhomophobia&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;LOL. “White boys with blonde hair &amp;/or abs are my weakness.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Translation: “I’ve been bombarded with images of white boys with blonde hair and/or abs so much my entire life they’ve become the only thing I can get my dick hard about.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Perfect translation&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50640628999</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50640628999</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 04:03:26 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>shikajika:

“Kids can’t learn about sexuality and gender because it’s too scary or confusing for...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://shikajika.tumblr.com/post/49262956980/kids-cant-learn-about-sexuality-and-gender"&gt;shikajika&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Kids can’t learn about sexuality and gender because it’s too scary or confusing for them” yeah because YOU told them they there are ONLY straight men and straight women from the age of three and then used that limited scope as an excuse to carry on dodging the subject.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I found the seven times table scary and confusing but I still had to do about 20 exams about it&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50629834456</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50629834456</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 23:50:01 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>thelolgifs:

hahaha that reaction
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/c84a312ad151c179a3f446a8a7c62167/tumblr_mmx96yUDSM1qlrxcho1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thelolgifs.tumblr.com/post/50625578999/hahaha-that-reaction"&gt;thelolgifs&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;hahaha that reaction&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50625865998</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50625865998</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 22:53:00 -0400</pubDate><category>tennis</category><category>agnieszka radwanska</category></item><item><title>I don’t think these girls realize that they aren’t...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/8795eb30ba2de69188d0381bfc667019/tumblr_mmwugs2jyJ1rd10xoo4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/4b973460ecc6f7104326f5a97daf995a/tumblr_mmwugs2jyJ1rd10xoo3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/313e115cbe5ab746724e3bda4bbf8e00/tumblr_mmwugs2jyJ1rd10xoo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/cd44e2db0324e64cb16cb5ea8a0b4aa2/tumblr_mmwugs2jyJ1rd10xoo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I don’t think these girls realize that they aren’t gonna be forced to marry women if same-sex marriage is legal. This isn’t about YOU.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50624057447</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50624057447</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 22:30:25 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>TOKiMONSTA - Soul to Seoul
Chillingly beautiful.</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="300" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/IenC-3AjOWM?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;TOKiMONSTA - Soul to Seoul&lt;br/&gt;
Chillingly beautiful.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50566883358</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50566883358</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 17:14:29 -0400</pubDate><category>tokimonsta</category><category>jennifer lee</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6140e6f63a93abb993c3b96a66e85fab/tumblr_mmvtgboJxy1rzcp0yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565277972</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565277972</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:14:35 -0400</pubDate><category>bodybuilder</category><category>muscle</category><category>asian</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a8d1b39897d1df57ab78f9bad1ec8018/tumblr_mmvpgu0cmT1sn4kjvo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565113993</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565113993</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:08:14 -0400</pubDate><category>bodybuilder</category><category>muscle</category><category>asian</category><category>hunk</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/663bd2d8e075f804bdfced8897963057/tumblr_mmvmp7O3TI1rzcp0yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565098280</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565098280</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:07:37 -0400</pubDate><category>bodybuilder</category><category>muscle</category><category>asian</category><category>gay</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/8afdf5cdca9a034be40f73b811d09022/tumblr_mmvsglcsX11rzcp0yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565070035</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565070035</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:06:29 -0400</pubDate><category>bodybuilder</category><category>muscle</category><category>asian</category><category>hunk</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/cff0c1a732fe343c38fa0bfc8d88d20d/tumblr_mmvrbfYRsi1rzcp0yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565058510</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50565058510</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:06:03 -0400</pubDate><category>muscle</category><category>asian</category></item><item><title>unduplicated:

YES.

DYING.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1b8076ef629b147cf4e1a8af003cf3ad/tumblr_mmu5pvwaUR1qc8jh0o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d154860627617fbc970859e8f56d0f3d/tumblr_mmu5pvwaUR1qc8jh0o2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/30a00390be9e5959256b7f33d50d3906/tumblr_mmu5pvwaUR1qc8jh0o3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://unduplicated.tumblr.com/post/50546216518"&gt;unduplicated&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;YES.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;DYING.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50564789315</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50564789315</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 03:56:11 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>yellowhine:

taonglayas:

castrogays:

When another super hot...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c4f6c46a055968ef1608a943d778dec8/tumblr_mgta8hePBB1rubxumo1_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://yellowhine.tumblr.com/post/46055700931/taonglayas-castrogays-when-another-super-hot"&gt;yellowhine&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://taonglayas.tumblr.com/post/46055340443"&gt;taonglayas&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://castrogays.tumblr.com/post/40830603243/when-another-super-hot-guy-has-an-asian"&gt;castrogays&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When another super hot guy has an asian boyfriend. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;don’t hate us cuz you ain’t us.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;people wonder i’m so averse to white queers and to the castro’s frequenters. the fact ANYONE actually liked this post explains why i just can’t deal with that scene.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;newsflash - we aren’t all crazy about you so fuck off. i only date my own species&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When basic white gay guys write basic shit like this.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;img alt="" src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c4f6c46a055968ef1608a943d778dec8/tumblr_mgta8hePBB1rubxumo1_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Just the opposite. More like when a super hot ASIAN guy has SETTLED (yes, SETTLED) for a busted as fuck basic ass white boyfriend, who did jack nuts to deserve such a boyfriend other than ‘being white’ a lot. …Just let that shit seep in.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50535745948</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50535745948</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 19:59:00 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>unduplicated:

vingtiane:

Minnesota is the 12th State in the...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/722ffac2b73125ec3fe0c4e1502f136a/tumblr_mmjtf9tceg1rxvvkwo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://unduplicated.tumblr.com/post/50070550791" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;unduplicated&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vingtiane.tumblr.com/post/50033940191/minnesota-is-the-12th-state-in-the-u-s-to-allow"&gt;vingtiane&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Minnesota is the 12th State in the U.S to allow Equal Marriage rights! It will be legalized in August 1st 2013!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;HOLY SHiT. &lt;3&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;It still needs the Senate vote - but the outlook looks very promising. Yay Midwest!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50075482268</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/50075482268</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 03:01:39 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>carnivalowl:

Saying that a man and a woman can’t be “just” friends is like assuming that a bisexual...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://carnivalowl.tumblr.com/post/45361089310/saying-that-a-man-and-a-woman-cant-be-just"&gt;carnivalowl&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Saying that a man and a woman can’t be “just” friends is like assuming that a bisexual can’t have any friends at all because they might get a sudden urge to fuck them.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;THIS.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/49946584845</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/49946584845</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 14:27:59 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>lgbtlaughs:

Delaware Becomes 11th State With Marriage...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/3feab2fc70b5f5d9c83fbc3aad0e02f2/tumblr_mmhok8zzxF1qak0qdo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://lgbtlaughs.tumblr.com/post/49941818647/delaware-becomes-11th-state-with-marriage" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;lgbtlaughs&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2013/05/07/1975311/breaking-delaware-to-become-11th-state-with-marriage-equality/"&gt;Delaware Becomes 11th State With Marriage Equality&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Gov. Markell promptly signed the bill into law this afternoon, telling the gathered crowd, “I do not intend to make any of you wait one minute longer”.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/49945648906</link><guid>http://seoulmate89.tumblr.com/post/49945648906</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 14:11:23 -0400</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
